Our little guy turned 1 yesterday, which called for a celebration and a party. There were lots of friends and framily who came to the party to help us celebrate the milestone. And there was bio dad (BD), too. No caseworkers or social workers; just BD. What you need to know is that BD was invited to the celebration...by us. No one coerced us, no one guilted us, no one threatened us. We requested (and were granted) permission from the caseworker to invite BD to the party. So he